Monday, December 7, 2009
So stinkin' frustrating!!
I made an appointment for Asche today to take him in for a 2nd opinion from Ken's doctor. I told the receptionist that I needed to get him in and that I was looking for a 2nd opinion. I didn't think about the fact that about 6 months ago Ken had taken him in to see this doc. It came up that he would be a new patient. This woman's tone totally changed. "Let me go and talk with my office manager and SEE IF we can take another NEW patient--click. No can you hold so I can see if we are still accepting new patients, just one moment while I check into something...nothing just the rudeness then silence. Then when this woman came back on the phone she said well, I have a 2:15 available. Ken wasn't going to be off till later, and really I needed him to take in Asche so I don't have to miss work if at all possible. I asked her if she had anything just a little later...No, (she spit out at me) for a NEW patient I have a 2:15. This was in the snottiest tone possible I have ever heard. So, because this is what my husband wanted, I figured that I would just talk to my boss and take in Asche.
The dialogue went a little like this:
Snot: "what is your child's last name?"
Jensen, with and E.
and the first name?
Asche...A-s-c-h-e.
Birthday?
8-11-xxxx
oh, well, I think we might have already seen your son in here before..
That is right, I forgot, I think my husband may have brought him in before. Since he isn't a new patient do you have a later appointment available.
HUUGGGGHHHHHH, well, I suppose we could squeeze you in around 3:45, is that late enuf?
Actually, that would be perfect.
Fine, then I guess we will see you then.
I had a few more questions for this snotty receptionist so I didn't just let her hang up.
I was wondering since I am looking for a second opinion would Dr. need to have me send over what Asche's pediatrician has already done.
Does your son have M e d i c a i d ?? (cuz apparently, according to my sister who has worked at a medical office, you are less of a person if you have Medicaid as your insurance. In the medical world..scum ranks above you here).
No, he doesn't. Same insurance as my husbands, but flopped, my insurance is primary for Asche.
Then NO, he doesn't need anything else from your doctor.
Shouldn't this witch be flattered that I thought to seek the opinion of the doctor she works for as a second before seeing a specialist all the way to Salt Lake City? Doesn't she realize when she is billing both of my insurance companies and then sending me a bill that I am ensuring that in this crappy economy that she is secured a job for another day?
I called Ken fuming. I told him that he had better say something to the Cow at the desk about the way she treated me. Lest she forget, answering the stupid phone is in her job description and courtesy is something that people extend to one another even when you day is crappy. At work, you put on your happy face and fake it for the customers. I decided that I was for sure going with Ken to this appointment. We told the doctor. I don't know if anything will come of it, but I am fed up with being treated like crap. If I did that to my members at my job, I would be out of job.
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Thanksgiving Dinner
The pre-party look. I was sooo happy with this table. It looked sooo good. I love it.
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Another baby, thank heavens it isn't mine.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
The amazing power of Thank You
Now the reason for all this background is that I have seen this promised fulfilled over and over in her life. the most recent time is when we went to parent teacher conferences. Olivia's teacher Mrs. Martineau said that Olivia was a very sweet, kind, loving little girl (which we already knew about her). She said she had a story about Olivia she wanted to share with us. She said that every time she would give Olivia a peice of paper, or a sticker for her homework, or read a story to the class Olivia would say Thank You. every single time, with amazing consistency for a 6 1/2 year old kid. Well, this started having an effect on the other little ones sitting next to her. They would start to say thanks for Mrs. Martineau reading, or handing out homework, etc. Then this started to spread. Now the class says thank you to her all day long. They are working on Rachel's Challenge (you have to google this if you need more info...I don't have room here to talk about it) and working on making little changes and creating a chain of events that create more goodness in the world. Mrs. Matineau said that Olivia has created the chain of event that has led to happiness and harmony in their class. She told us that she has never had a class that did this. She had never recieved so much gratitude from a single child before. Mrs. Martineau was telling the class how much she appreciated their outstanding manners and two little boys raised their hands and said..."Olivia taught us how!"
As her mother I am moved emotionally by this child. I think she is amazing. She is little and has created this big change in the lives of those around . How could you not love this kid? She was sent to our family and she is here to teach others to love and how to be loved. Kindness is a way to do that. Maybe we all need to say thank you more and more and for even the little things that we don't necessarily think we need to (who says thanks for getting another assignment to do or when we get to do another chore??) Gratitude is great!
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Saturday, August 1, 2009
Our new house!
Saturday, July 25, 2009
They came too early Mom
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
The perks of being the 5th kid.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
The home we are putting an offer on.
Friday, June 26, 2009
I yuv dat song.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Does someone have a brown paper bag...I may throw up.
If you know someone that is looking for a good first time home buyer home, with a few extras, send them our way. They can use the 8000 tax credit on this house. We want to sell. We are going to get the building started on our new home.
Updates on the house progress
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Getting closer
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
My favorite pal
All I could think of was the Primary song "My Dad." The first lines are:
My Daddy is my favorite pal and I help him every day. It's plain to see I want to be like him in every way.
The "n"th degree
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Painting fiasco
I can't believe they have this much junk. They need to get rid of half of that! Now that we have emptied the room of it's contents it is time to paint right? Wrong!! You have to tape it off. Every square inch you don't to have painted must be covered up with tape. This takes about and hour when you are working fast. When you have a 6 year old, 4 year old, and a 9 month old this process is extended to about 2 hours. It really isn't the taping that takes forever it is the interuptions that take forever. It sounds a little like this: The 6 year old is hungry. Can you please get me something to eat Mommy? Yeah me too Mom says teh 4 year old. Sure I would love to get you something, what do you want. I want a peice of cheese, a BIG one please. Ok, sure, simple enough. Slice the cheese, two happy people. Back to taping. Ah Wahhhhh! guess who else is hungry. Fix the bottle and ask the 6 year old to feed him. (one perk of having older kids). Back to taping. Mom, I think Asche is poopy, I don't want to feed him anymore, he stinks. OK, just sec, let me finish this wall and I will change him. Baby changed. Please quit fighting over the Halloween clothes. Yes it is fine, Keneisha if they dress up.
I eventually got the taping done. The little two girls wanted to help, so I armed them with a little paint can and a brush and told them they could do no wrong in the closet, please just stay in the tape lines. They did a good job, minimal drips, and I think I lost square footage in the closet, but they had a great time. Brennady moved on to dress up and wore the witch outfit the rest of the day, even to Wal-mart and Broulims. Ken told people she had just dressed up to look like me. ha ha very funny.
The painting starts next. This is arm breaking labor. It took two coats to completely cover up the yellow paint that I had on the wall before. But overall it looks pretty good. I am excited about it being done. I still have to put one more coat on the older girls' walls but I will get that done tomorrow. I will post the pictures tomorrow, that is if my arms work anymore. (Does anyone know where the icy hot is?)
Thursday, May 21, 2009
One and a half
So, when my sister texted me tonight and said that Logan said that Kaitlyn was the second cutest baby and asked me to guess who was the first cutest. I texted her back and said that it was him. She texted back and said that no, Logan said that Asche was the first cutest then Kaitlyn. I told her to tell him that I forgave him for not liking my curtains. She said that she told him that Kaitlyn was first then Asche was second. He told her Fine, they are both one and half. I can settle for that (really, Logan was right the first time. Asche is first cutest).
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Outnumbered and looking for a plan.
I tell people that I secretly look forward to the day that I live all alone--no kids, no husband, no pets. I know that I will be able to have a clean home--everything has a place and everything in its place. We just need to be able to let go of this stuff. Ken had a rough childhood. He constantly felt deprived of the simple things and so now he over compensates by never letting go of things and hauling tons more of it home. If everyone would go away for a week and let me be I could make amazing progress in the house and no one would be able to tell me exactly what I had gotten rid of. There is that much stuff just hanging around.
I will update as my progress goes, and hopefully remember to take the pictures like it says too. Then when I call my realtor in a week to list my house, I will be ready for strangers to come in and look at it and hopefully make an offer. I want to build a new home (that way we can fill it up and I will still be outnumbered. AHHHH Well, who said life is fair)
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Finally!!!
Now, that being said---I miss the feel of my baby next to me. I loved snuggling in with him, tucking his body in next to mine. Feeling his body heat, smelling his hair, listening to him breathe. It is sooooo short of a time that I can do that with my babies and I wasn't quite ready to let it go even if I was desparate for a full night's rest. Sometimes being a mom just sucks. On one hand you are thrilled that your little one has learned a new skill, has found a new way, has grown and is so pleased with themselves that they squeal their delight when they do their new found ability. The other hand says, WAIT, I AM NOT READY FOR YOU TO DO THAT!!!! I needed about 15 more minutes with him cuz I think I only got 15 minutes with him tiny.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Out of the mouths of babes.
Hurt my feelings, heavens NO!! Why would that hurt my feelings. I think that she just said the thing we have all wanted to say. Now whenever I am the meanest mother of the year and talking with Candice she whispers to me, Sometimes, when I am mad at you, I call you a witch. And we both just chuckle and laugh like crazy.
Next...
When we were getting ready for school and work a couple mornings ago Brennady came to me and said she was hon-dree (translates to hungry). I said well then go and get a banana or a yogurt. She said no, I wanno piece o'meat. She is a meat-a-tarian, it's a choice, but she is willing to commit.
Next...
Taushi is 11 going on 21. She is turning into a full blown teenager and loves to inform me that I am ruining her life. What she doesn't realize if I am ruining her life, I am doing my job. I hope I hear it more and more and more
Next...
Olivia is always full of crazy things to say. How to narrow it down with her is like trying to choose between Dove dark chocolate and Dove milk chocolate. Really, either way, you are a winner. The chocolate is amazing and you are a winner either way. I have to think about it and I will get back to you on her.
I got it--Olivia came out dressed for school in a pair of pants that have an applique of Cinderella on them. They are to die for cute pants and some of her favorites. However, they have holes in the knees. Ken told her she would need to change her pants. She said to him "Aw c'mon Dad. Kids at my school are jealous!" Well, when you put it that way....what can you say. you have to let her wear them---NOT!!! Dad's are suckers for pretty faces and cute sayings.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
My millions in the making
Holy socks?
I know it looks like I have death grip on his foot, but have you ever tried to snap a picture of a wiggly baby who believes that kicking feet is the best? No babies were harmed in the taking of these photos (and no extra holes either).
Monday, March 23, 2009
How to make a boy fit in with 4 girls
This Pic is the horseshoe that I quilted in the blanket instead of doing boring straight lines to hold it all together.
The front: The middle is all the cute mis-matched squares then the sashing is in the softest minkee like fabric that has little stars pressed into it (you can see a little of the fabric in the pic above and if you look close you can see the stars there too). Then I picked a square for the corners and edged it in decorator cording (like the stuff you put on draperies) so it would look like rope around the edge. I love it. Honestly it is my favorite quilt I have ever made.
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Constructive Criticism
This cute bag is fun and roomy. I have lined it with the same fabric that is on the wipe cover and handles. This bag is great when you want something cute and different than everyone else out there and it really could double as a fun purse when baby has outgrown the need for diaper bags. The black courdory is nice sized pockets that can hold all the the little things momma needs at immediate reach--bottles, drops, socks, whatever you put in there.